三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報(bào)道
精彩| 當(dāng)??(dang)女??(nv)兒?(er)跟??(gen)父??(fu)母?(mu)說(shuō)??(shuo)出??(chu)“我??(wo)有??(you)喜??(xi)歡??(huan)的??(de)男??(nan)生?(sheng)”這??(zhe)件??(jian)事??(shi)時(shí)??(shi)??,可??(ke)能??(neng)只??(zhi)是??(shi)說(shuō)??(shuo)說(shuō)??(shuo)感?(gan)受??(shou)??,需?(xu)要??(yao)大??(da)人??(ren)的??(de)理??(li)解??(jie)、共??(gong)情??(qing)??,也??(ye)可?(ke)能??(neng)是?(shi)求??(qiu)助??(zhu)于??(yu)父??(fu)母??(mu)解??(jie)決??(jue)心??(xin)理??(li)困??(kun)擾??(rao)??。??父??(fu)母??(mu)該??(gai)怎??(zen)么?(me)引??(yin)導(dǎo)?(dao)孩??(hai)子??(zi)呢??(ne)??? 無(wú)?(wu)錫?(xi)市?(shi)連?(lian)元?(yuan)街??(jie)小??(xiao)學(xué)??(xue)章??(zhang)敏??(min)老?(lao)師??(shi)建??(jian)議??(yi)??,首??(shou)先??(xian)??,和??(he)孩??(hai)子??(zi)站??(zhan)在??(zai)“同??(tong)一?(yi)陣??(zhen)線??(xian)”??。??孩??(hai)子?(zi)有??(you)了??(le)喜??(xi)歡??(huan)的??(de)異??(yi)性??(xing)??,又??(you)一??(yi)個(gè)??(ge)教??(jiao)育??(yu)的??(de)契?(qi)機(jī)??(ji)也??(ye)就??(jiu)來(lái)??(lai)了??(le)??,對(duì)??(dui)父??(fu)母??(mu)也??(ye)是??(shi)一??(yi)次??(ci)教?(jiao)育??(yu)智??(zhi)慧??(hui)的??(de)考??(kao)驗(yàn)??(yan)??。家??(jia)長(zhǎng)??(chang)要??(yao)沉??(chen)住??(zhu)氣??(qi)??,耐??(nai)心?(xin)傾?(qing)聽(tīng)??(ting)??,讓??(rang)孩??(hai)子??(zi)說(shuō)??(shuo)一??(yi)說(shuō)??(shuo)喜??(xi)歡??(huan)異??(yi)性??(xing)的??(de)理??(li)由??(you)??,什??(shen)么??(me)吸??(xi)引??(yin)了??(le)他??(ta)(她??(ta))??,區(qū)??(qu)別??(bie)什??(shen)么??(me)是?(shi)愛(ài)??(ai)情??(qing)、友??(you)情??(qing)和??(he)親?(qin)情??(qing)??,因??(yin)為??(wei)愛(ài)??(ai)??,不??(bu)是??(shi)一??(yi)廂??(xiang)情??(qing)愿??(yuan)的??(de)喜??(xi)歡??(huan)??,而??(er)是??(shi)一??(yi)種??(zhong)責(zé)??(ze)任??(ren)??,從??(cong)而?(er)讓??(rang)孩??(hai)子??(zi)認(rèn)??(ren)識(shí)??(shi)到??(dao)??,所??(suo)謂??(wei)的??(de)早??(zao)戀??(lian)??,本??(ben)質(zhì)??(zhi)上??(shang)是?(shi)一??(yi)種??(zhong)純??(chun)潔??(jie)的??(de)友??(you)誼?(yi)??,喜??(xi)歡??(huan)與??(yu)討??(tao)厭??(yan)一??(yi)個(gè)??(ge)人?(ren)都??(dou)是??(shi)正??(zheng)常??(chang)的??(de)情??(qing)感??(gan)??,就??(jiu)像??(xiang)我??(wo)們??(men)喜??(xi)歡??(huan)小??(xiao)動(dòng)??(dong)物??(wu)、喜??(xi)歡??(huan)布??(bu)娃??(wa)娃??(wa)一??(yi)樣??(yang)??,喜??(xi)歡??(huan)一??(yi)個(gè)?(ge)朝??(chao)夕??(xi)相??(xiang)處??(chu)的??(de)異??(yi)性??(xing)同??(tong)學(xué)??(xue)??,沒(méi)??(mei)問(wèn)??(wen)題??(ti)??,但??(dan)把??(ba)這??(zhe)份??(fen)愛(ài)??(ai)收??(shou)住??(zhu)??,不??(bu)打??(da)擾??(rao)別?(bie)人??(ren)??,才?(cai)是??(shi)一??(yi)種?(zhong)成??(cheng)熟??(shu)??。此??(ci)時(shí)??(shi)??,父??(fu)母??(mu)不??(bu)必?(bi)過(guò)??(guo)多??(duo)解?(jie)讀??(du)??,既??(ji)不??(bu)要??(yao)提??(ti)前??(qian)喚??(huan)醒??(xing)早??(zao)戀??(lian)的??(de)意??(yi)識(shí)??(shi)??,也??(ye)不??(bu)要??(yao)遏??(e)制??(zhi)情??(qing)感?(gan)的?(de)發(fā)??(fa)展?(zhan)??。父??(fu)母??(mu)接??(jie)納??(na)孩??(hai)子??(zi)的??(de)情??(qing)竇??(dou)初??(chu)開(kāi)??(kai)??,孩??(hai)子??(zi)更?(geng)愿??(yuan)意??(yi)對(duì)??(dui)父??(fu)母??(mu)敞??(chang)開(kāi)??(kai)心??(xin)扉??(fei)??,親??(qin)子??(zi)關(guān)??(guan)系??(xi)正??(zheng)常??(chang)如??(ru)初??(chu)??,教??(jiao)育??(yu)就??(jiu)不??(bu)會(huì)??(hui)出??(chu)大??(da)問(wèn)??(wen)題??(ti)??。
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