三九養(yǎng)生堂記者 鄧肯·蓋伊 報道
精彩| 同??(tong)時??(shi)??,這??(zhe)個??(ge)人??(ren)情??(qing)賬??(zhang)戶??(hu)不??(bu)僅??(jin)是??(shi)金??(jin)錢??(qian)上??(shang)的??(de)??,也??(ye)是?(shi)心??(xin)理??(li)上??(shang)的?(de)??。??人??(ren)情??(qing)不??(bu)要?(yao)攀??(pan)比??(bi)??,人??(ren)情??(qing)也??(ye)求?(qiu)不??(bu)來??(lai)??。不??(bu)管??(guan)是??(shi)親??(qin)友??(you)往??(wang)來??(lai)還??(hai)是??(shi)職??(zhi)場??(chang)人??(ren)情??(qing)??,該??(gai)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)時??(shi)要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會??(hui)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)??。對??(dui)于??(yu)很??(hen)多??(duo)人??(ren)情??(qing)來??(lai)說??(shuo)??,其??(qi)實(shí)??(shi)并?(bing)不?(bu)是??(shi)非??(fei)去??(qu)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非?(fei)送??(song)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)請??(qing)不??(bu)可??(ke)、非??(fei)幫??(bang)不??(bu)可??(ke)??。在??(zai)接??(jie)到??(dao)一??(yi)份??(fen)邀??(yao)請??(qing)時??(shi)??,我??(wo)們??(men)首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)對??(dui)這??(zhe)件??(jian)事??(shi)的??(de)重??(zhong)要??(yao)性?(xing)和??(he)必??(bi)要?(yao)性??(xing)進(jìn)??(jin)行??(xing)基??(ji)本?(ben)判??(pan)斷??(duan)??,綜??(zong)合??(he)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)時??(shi)間??(jian)安??(an)排?(pai)、財??(cai)務(wù)??(wu)能??(neng)力??(li)作?(zuo)出?(chu)決?(jue)定??(ding)??,而??(er)不??(bu)是??(shi)因??(yin)為??(wei)“不??(bu)好??(hao)意??(yi)思??(si)拒??(ju)絕??(jue)”“怕??(pa)沒??(mei)面??(mian)子??(zi)”等??(deng)理??(li)由?(you)徒??(tu)受??(shou)其??(qi)累??(lei)??。為??(wei)人?(ren)情??(qing)交?(jiao)往??(wang)“減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)”??,首??(shou)先??(xian)要??(yao)學(xué)??(xue)會??(hui)為?(wei)自??(zi)己??(ji)的??(de)心??(xin)態(tài)??(tai)“減??(jian)負(fù)??(fu)”??。要??(yao)知??(zhi)道??(dao)??,拒??(ju)絕??(jue)一?(yi)場??(chang)職??(zhi)場??(chang)聚??(ju)餐??(can)邀??(yao)請??(qing)??,并??(bing)不??(bu)會??(hui)讓?(rang)自?(zi)己??(ji)從??(cong)此??(ci)顯??(xian)得??(de)“不??(bu)合??(he)群??(qun)”;用??(yong)適??(shi)當(dāng)??(dang)理??(li)由??(you)婉??(wan)拒??(ju)一??(yi)位??(wei)普??(pu)通??(tong)朋??(peng)友??(you)的??(de)婚?(hun)宴??(yan)邀??(yao)約??(yue)??,相??(xiang)信??(xin)也??(ye)會??(hui)得??(de)到?(dao)對??(dui)方??(fang)的??(de)理??(li)解??(jie)??。 這?(zhe)種??(zhong)不??(bu)清??(qing)不??(bu)楚??(chu)的??(de)人??(ren)情??(qing)負(fù)??(fu)擔(dān)??(dan)??,存??(cun)在??(zai)兩?(liang)方??(fang)面??(mian)的??(de)問??(wen)題??(ti):一??(yi)是??(shi)相??(xiang)關(guān)??(guan)開??(kai)支??(zhi)其??(qi)實(shí)??(shi)在??(zai)合??(he)理??(li)范??(fan)圍??(wei)內(nèi)??(nei)??,只??(zhi)是??(shi)因??(yin)為??(wei)覺??(jiao)得??(de)是??(shi)被??(bei)動??(dong)花??(hua)錢??(qian)??,心??(xin)里??(li)感??(gan)到?(dao)不??(bu)舒??(shu)服??(fu);另??(ling)一?(yi)種??(zhong)情??(qing)況?(kuang)??,是??(shi)人??(ren)情??(qing)開??(kai)支?(zhi)已??(yi)經(jīng)??(jing)讓??(rang)自??(zi)己??(ji)面??(mian)臨?(lin)入?(ru)不?(bu)敷??(fu)出??(chu)的??(de)尷??(gan)尬??(ga)境??(jing)況??(kuang)??。??人??(ren)情?(qing)往??(wang)來??(lai)并??(bing)不??(bu)可??(ke)怕??(pa)??,可??(ke)怕?(pa)的??(de)是??(shi)人??(ren)情??(qing)開??(kai)支??(zhi)超??(chao)過??(guo)了??(le)合??(he)理??(li)的??(de)限?(xian)度??(du)??。因??(yin)此??(ci)??,建??(jian)立??(li)人??(ren)情??(qing)賬??(zhang)戶??(hu)很?(hen)有??(you)必??(bi)要?(yao)??。
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